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Learning how to set goals is essential to success and happiness in life. Without personal goal setting, we may feel lost and unmotivated. It’s part of human nature to want to grow, learn, achieve and advance our position in life. Yet so often we find ourselves stagnating and feeling as though we’re unhappy for some intangible reason. More often than not, it’s because you have failed to seek purpose, set goals and strive for something. Here are some practical tips to help you get more out of life and feel satisfied.

One difficulty when people learn how to set goals is finding realistic goals. This requires a bit of research. If an individual wants to be a WBTV reporter, she must look up the job qualifications and see if she possesses them. If she hasn’t completed college, then it would be unrealistic for her to assume she can walk right into the job. If she hasn’t drawn up a resume, she cannot assume she’ll be able to meet this particular goal. In another example, if a person is unhappy in his current relationship, it may be unrealistic for him to set personal goals of finding only professional models to date. While you don’t want to sell yourself short, you need to set attainable goals before raising the bar to achieve even more. Runners don’t try to finish a marathon for their first race — they train, accomplish smaller goals and work their way up to the top!

A person who knows how to set goals also knows that one of the most satisfying parts of the process is recording progress. After creating a written goals list of tasks, he or she can then check off any tasks that have been completed to physically see the success happening. The more check marks are made, the more an individual will feel motivated to keep going and complete the whole list. This personal goal list will also help keep an individual on track. It’s easy to feel lost and wonder, “What now?” And it’s equally easy to feel impatient and wonder, “Why should I even bother finishing?” With a list, the answers are clear.

A life goal list can be quite varied. Some people want to improve their health through dietary modifications and exercise routines. Other people want to manage their time better and have freer schedules. Perhaps it’s an unfulfilling job or a dissatisfying relationship that’s bringing an individual down. A simple “want” is different than a goal. It is not enough to desire change, for without a plan of action, little can realistically be accomplished.

The first step in determining how to set goals is to do an honest assessment of your life. Once you’ve faced the struggles and disappointments in your current situation, you will find the motivation to set short and long term goals and make the necessary adjustments. You can ask yourself, “Is smoking, drinking, drug using, binge eating or failing to exercise bringing me down? Am I working a dead-end job that pays too little, does not challenge me enough or causes undue stress? Is my poor time management and disorganization stressing me out? Do I need a new hobby or skill to keep me occupied? Is my partner causing more unhappiness than happiness, or am I treating my partner unfairly?” Once you’ve spent some time being introspective, you’ll be ready to begin.